The top three annoying things:
This is a very broad title ” The top three annoying things” it could refer to so much,people,pain,sickness. medication, sleep…LIFE! however in this case it shall refer to My crohn’s disease.
…”right yes that Is much less broad of a category…”
I am going to attempt to pick the three most annoying things in my IBD life thus far, not the most life altering things but the most “omg really things” the things that make me feel frustrated or pissed about living with IBD,
LET US BEGIN!
OMG, urgency when you rush to the bathroom all day and nothing happens , when you feel like your about to crap you pants get there and nothing happens, when you feel an intense pressure AND NOTHING HAPPENS!
Fighting urgency can be a tricky thing , it is very hard to tell if it is just urgency or the real thing and trust me you don’t want to make the mistake of picking “its just urgency” and being wrong!
It is such a waste of time and stress and is definitely on my list of most annoying things.
The good old Stress diarrhea, when you are already freaking out about something and BOOM the diarrhea hits, Now not only do you have to worry about what ever it was you where initially stressed about but your throw the diarrhea into the whole annoying mix! which i turn makes you more stressed!! it is a never-ending annoying cycle!
Some people say that stress and anxiety have nothing to do with IBD but i indeed believe it does and feel most of you would agree.yes? I do not think it is the cause nor do i think it us the main contributor to IBD but i does play a part.
I put a poll up on the FB ( Crohn’s & Ulcerative Colitis Support Site ) asking:
Know it all’s
In general i find know it all type personalities annoying, when it comes to people who do not have IBD or are not a doctor trying to tell me what i should or should or shouldn’t be doing drives me insane , seriously YOU HAVE KNOW IDEA WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT!
Trying to tell me to follow a diet you “heard” of one time in your life will not help me , trying to tell me to eat more will not help me , trying to tell me to sleep more will not happen and trying to tell me to take flipping tums will indeed piss me off
TUMS ARE SO USELESS!!
Lately I have found that i have a very low tolerance for people trying to give me advise when they have no idea what they are talking about it seems to me that everyone thinks they know what we go though day in and day out because they may have had food poisoning once like WTF are you talking about!?!?!?
They think we have some sort of stomach flu or that we are too lazy to try a new diet or that we are brain washed into thinking we are sick or that we are faking it, you don’t see us trying and trying to tell a “healthy normal person” how to live there life, you know why? because we are not healthy normal people therefore i have know idea how a diet helped you get more healthy and frankly don’t really care, the last thing i want to hear when i am in a flare is a “healthy normal person” say well this diet really worked for me you should try it…NO!!! F#UCK YOU!
…no that’s not nice
…I get that they are trying to help i really do but honestly it’s not helpful it makes me not want to share how i really feel, which sucks, i don’t mind, a really do like sharing my experiences with others but when it comes down to having to have an argument with a thick-headed person i will give up, which in the long run wont help any of us..they will keep believing what they believe (which is wrong) they will never learn that what they are saying is actually hurtful to us but i don’t know what to say to someone whom is stuck in one mind of thinking…
What are your top three most annoying things, please share!
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